Sunday, September 12, 2010

self help is best help

It is easy when life is smooth, without any roughness.But we need to take risk and achieve our goals,i believe self help is best help with some guidance of your dear ones.''A successful man is one who can build a firm foundation with the bricks that others throw at him.”


If you are dependent on someone,you will be always having a habit of making things done from others,for example:when your close friend helps you to complete your journals with some drawing.As drawing cannot be recognized by the staff members,so we want to complete our work very soon by telling our friends to do some part of our work and we get addicted to that,but when we need to complete the assigned work,and our friend is busy with their work,we still wish they do our work.and when they refuse only once we are hurted and some hatefulness in our mind,we forget 100 good things done by them and we hate them only for 1 refusal of their work,we feel very unhappy and also cover the mist of happiness which is in front of us.“Don’t bother people for help without first trying to solve the problem yourself.”

So,i wish you friends ,self help is best help.We must try to complete our work ,by doing so we will be confidence in what ever we do.and we can have a healthy friendship witheveryone and we will be happy and proud of us for whatever we do. Expectations hurt ,but if we have dear ones its natural that we expect a bit from them. I would like to suggest that try to be happy in whatever you do,believe in yourself and think what ever you do, it will be the best and you will feel self content in life.“Other people may be there to help us, teach us, guide us along our path, but the lesson to be learned is always ours.”
and finally i want to tell your friends,believe in yourself because they are hardly few people who wish your dreams come true and i think they will be only your parents because they are only one who can withstand all your pains,and next is your teachers who always wish that their students score well,and few close friends but never make a mistake in choosing your friends,because they are the main integral of your life.finally believe that what ever happens.. happens for good only and keep smiling,it cost noting and be happy
I challenge you - NO, I DARE you - to not only read, but more importantly to take action and apply the information I expose. Prove to your self that positive, permanent change is yours for the taking.
ALL THE BEST FOR YOUR FUTURE

6 comments:

  1. Wow, I'm so happy to see you blogging and I reckon its a very nice title
    that suits your personality as well - "Express Yourself".
    First, a very hearty Congratulations for a new beginning.
    I really liked your template, good job.

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  2. I saw your posts in Orkut now and then. Nice to see your thoughts here. All the best for your new initiative.

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  3. THANKS A LOT:),
    I m really very happy,thanks a lot once again

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  4. Anupama ur doing great job .........

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  5. Hey Anu,
    Nice blog. Keep going.
    I'm ending with Albert Einstein quote:
    "I am thankful to all those who said NO to me. It’s because of them I did it myself" ~Albert Einstein

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