Wednesday, June 26, 2013

Are you still the mama s kid or grown up???


when i was a small little angel for my parents my mom use to send me to kindergarten so that one day her daughter would be an engineer.I really enjoyed my school .As we grow older we feel past was better than present,when we are small kids we love to play with other children,love to do notorious things,but as soon as we step into the world of under graduate studies ,we fell doing home work was far better than complision of journals,a college where hardly anyone care for us,none of the lectures are interested why we bunked the class  nor we are interested in respecting them,the moral values layed by our parents are just forgotten like text book answers.We simply run behind the word of attraction called love,when fake love fails,guys start the new colorful life like of drinks and smokes...and a girl who always sheds the tears and suicide herself???,why are we always making fun of others and commenting on them,we love to irritate the lectures,Just love to keep stupid names to friends and classmates.we always have time to reply the sms or chat with our close friends we have time to have fun around...but when your mom calls for the shopping or request you to give her a lift we blindly say sorry mom i m busy with my work....for a girl if a boy friend advice its a care..but if a parent advice then its blame..why is the thinking of youth changing so drastically,is it the western education impact.its just like sitting in front of laptop all the time and not even aware if our parents wish to speak with us,when we stay in hostel or way we have a feeling that we must share with them everything but when we come home we just smile at them and sit in front of laptop.but one should not forget there are different ways of expressing love,one cannot compare the love 



Comparisons between various types of love are easy when one type of love scarcely exists; such comparisons are
difficult when genuine profound love prevails in both types. In such profound love, the differences between the two types are more evident and comparisons seem meaningless. Thus, a woman who believes that her love for her children is greater than the love she has for anyone else was hesitant when asked to compare this love with the profound love she felt for her deceased father (although she had no hesitation about making this comparison to her mother)To sum up, although we say that we cannot compare apples and oranges since they are different types of fruit, we can compare their specific features, such as their taste or the hardness of their skin. In a similar manner, parental love and children's love for their parents is difficult to compare as they are different, but there are still some features that can be compared. The depth of the emotional connections is typically greater in parental love, and hence in a sense this love can be considered to be greater. Even if this is so, it is problematic to tell your child that you love her more than you love your mommy, as in saying this the great differences between the two types of love are ignored.



The above considerations can be encapsulated in the following statement that a lover might express: "Darling, my sweet child, I love you very much, but I love my mother as well, so let us not compare these different loves.




Parents can only give good advice or put them on the right paths, but the final forming of a person's character lies in their own hands