Friday, January 7, 2011

MY MOM ,MY LIFE

i strongly believe in love at first sight, because as soon i opened my eyes in the world i started loving my mom. In this world everything can be purchased or replaced. For instance; if we don't have our own siblings, we start believing our cousins are our siblings, when we break up our love we still try to forget it by searching another.However; friends remember nobody in this world can substitute mom s position, situationally we might have 2 fathers but there is only one mother for each child..!
I REALLY LOVE My MUM!!!!

I was not born very normal like you friends, god had blessed me with a special skin abnormality .Every day it would hurt my mom, but still she hid her tears in her smile. Now I really wonder if my mom was hurt so much, what about those thousands and millions of mothers whose child is born with a disability.
And now, i realize though my mom has suffered so much pain in her life,yet she has the strength to give me her shoulder when I need one, her advice when I'm lost, and her love when i need the most. She supports me with courage, faith and hope. She blames herself for my having to care for her and my brother but I'm thankful for every moment I've spent, because each one got me to where I am and who I am today. 
Well, I'm sure in your case, your mom would be the best in the world to you - even if you don't have any reasons why you would think so.. in fact, I just think all of us should make our moms the best, because they simply deserve to be the best for all of us,
As i joined my degree course, I had to leave my mom and go to hostel, it was the most critical moment for me to go.Then, i started realizing ,its so difficult to manage without her. when she is with us we only keep blaming her for not getting work done, but friends think is it that we are than her in any way?no way.! We cannot compete with her ever!!
My mother has a slender,small body,but a large heart-a heart so large that everybody 's joys found welcome in it,and hospitable accommodation.

Sometimes i think, how difficult it is for those who loose their mom,I realized this when my mom lost her mom all of sudden due to heart attack.
Sometimes I wish I could just sit and talk about her, tell about what a great woman she is. I could talk about her for hours, and days, and I could tell you the stories I remember and the things I know about her or the stories I’ve heard and continue to hear on occasion.  She is crazy.  She is fun.  She is loud.  She is competitive.  She is caring.  She is strong.  She is responsible.  She is amazing.  But most of all, she is my mom.  No one can ever replace a mom.  NO ONE.

Please appreciate your mom and dad.  It is hard to do I know.  I have the same problem.but when i went to hostel my views have completely changed , But I promise you hanging out with them, or fighting with them, or laughing with them…it is all worth it.  Spend time.  Laugh.  Live.  Enjoy it while they are here. Even though i m not with my mom, I m happy that at least we are under the same sky, I really feel bad for the people who are not under the same sky.I am such a happy person.  I am such a blessed person.  I don’t take anything for granted because I know as soon as you can have something, you can lose something.  I cherish and appreciate everything about my life and life in general.  Life is too precious to not enjoy every day while you can.My family is small, but they are the biggest part of my life and without them breathing would be harder, existing would be dreary, and living would be life-less.

Thanks for always helping me to remember what is important in life... and today it is you!
Mom..................You're the best! Thanks for all you do.